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Help Keep Gay yidden Doing Torah MitzvosHelp Keep Gay yidden Doing Torah MitzvosWe are a team of frum, erliche, queer jews who wish to live humbly by halacha. We understand it is political suicide within the community for rabbonim to side publically with queer yidden, and so halacha lmaase pertaining to the lives of LGBT jews is nearly impossible to find for the average jew who wishes to be shomer torah mitzvos. This leads many nebach queer jews rachmone litzlan to leave the derech (chas vshalom), go ubgofutten (chalila nisht), and “frai out” (lo aleinu). Simply put, this is a tragedy, especially when so many lgbt jews can live torah observant lives do torah mitzvos, and be lights in this world biz moshiach vet kimmen, bmehera byamaeini. So, we hope to make it easy for Rabbonim, Poskim, and Queer Jews to access shitas and tshuvos on how they can live their lives in accordance with torah.
As of 2024, the site is exclusively run by chassidim.
Torah
Torah is water, is life. Without it, we’d be lost in a desert once again. We ensure everything we do is in line with the torah, both in its expressed laws and in its values. We don’t discard any part of the torah, nor shy away from it.
Chen
Life is complicated. Hashem loves you. We love you too. Ahavas yisroel (loving eachother) is a practice. Even when we cannot find a kula or heter (leniency), we extend chen (grace) and rachmanus (compassion) for the one asking a question.
Excellence
We don’t look to be meikil or find kulos by making up new “forms of Judaism” or ideologies. We are committed to halachic excellence, ensuring our shitas (opinions) are firmly rooted in torah and have well supported rayos (evidence).
All shitas and tshuvos go through a rigorous screening process to ensure they only come from hareidi yiras shomayim talmidei chachamim, poskim, and the like. The topics on this site are sensitive, and thus we keep our operations clandestine. Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of our practice. That being said, our operations are sparse. Many of us are Yingerkeit, Closeted Queer people in hareidi community, and the like. As much as we’d love to spend as much of our time being of service to queer yidden and the like, we are at our operational capacity. Some of us have wives, families, kehillas, and other obligations outside this private affair. Right now webhosting itself costs nearly $100 a year. Even a small donation of $18 can help fund 2 months of shailos, making practical Halacha accessible to gay and trans Jews all over the globe with the click of a button.
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